Fri 17 Apr 2009

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.


  1. What were the five words?
  2. What is the implication of this story?

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step". Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.


This story is really worth reading... Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E


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Mon 13 Apr 2009


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Fri 10 Apr 2009

Being a facebook developer, i think following information will be helpful for users.

Security related to Applications

Privacy is always an important factor in personal life and behaving.

If any female or male doesn't want to share his or her photos or albums or some personal information on facebook with unknown personals through the applications they add/allow weather for any reason or in fun, which are vulnerable to misbehavers, then don't forget to set its applicaion privacy setting at following locations :-  Click on

1) Settings (from top facebook menu -> Privacy Setting -> Applications -> Overview
Here read the short important overview. It will not take your important minutes.

2) Settings (from top facebook menu -> Privacy Setting -> Applications -> Settings 

Here set your required settings. Do you want to share your photos and other personal information with the application, who's owner and developers are unknown and stranger to u, are you sure? No, so set your settings by removing check marks and save.


Be choosy in adding/allowing Applications - Be Safe



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Are you sure you want to share your photos and personal information to persons who you dont know and to strangers?, If no then set your privacy settings now!


For Facebook photo and album privacy setting, click following link


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